These days, it seems like Taylor Swift is known almost as much for her failed relationships as she is for the songs she writes about them. Now, we love Tay and just want her to be happy, but we can understand why some people would feel the need to shake their heads at her when it comes to matters of the heart. When rumors flew that Taylor was already in the studio recording breakup hits about One Direction‘s Harry Styles just days after their split earlier this month, the jokes started rolling in. Tay was the butt of a joke at the Golden Globes for her serial dating habits and late night talk show host Conan O’Brien put together a (totally, obviously) fake video parodying her songwriting (see above).

Do you think the jokes and videos are funny and totally fair game since Tay is so famous or are they plain mean? Sound off in the comments and on Twitter!