Breakups are seriously the worst!

Zendaya shared some tips about getting over your ex, and her advice couldn’t be more on point. Instead of crying over what could have been, the actress wants her fans to be positive, try new things and just live life. PREACH!

“I started forcing myself to have a lot more fun. I tried new things – going out and just doing more stuff. A healthy relationship does not mean you need to be with that person 24/7.”

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And when you’re moving on from a failed relationship, it’s important to leave everything in the past:

“I got rid of old text messages, pictures and their clothing I still had. You don’t hang on to old Band-Aids. Throw that in the trash! You have to get rid of everything associated with them. It’s best to get rid of their number. Or if you can’t quite let go, at least change the title of their name in your phone.”

We can all learn a lot from Queen Z! Take our quiz and see how she’ll inspire you this year.